Dating a man that is turkish would really appreciate advice from a Turkish guy please

If any human anatomy could shed some understanding of my “relationship” with a guy that is turkish would actually relish it. We particularly want to hear from Turkish males. My guy that is turkish has in the united states for more than a decade. He has got a card that is greenits azure). He will not would like to get hitched. He only introduced us to their relative and can perhaps not introduce me personally to their buddies whom appear to be hitched to Turkish women.

He could be Muslim and contains stated whenever we ever endured a young child it will be Muslim, despite the fact that he will not follow their faith. He sometimes made plans beside me then would not arrive. In the beginning he had been apologetic he then changed and stated we ought not to be therefore mad – despite the fact that he “disappears” and doesn’t respond to his mobile phone. He has “watched” us to see if we cheat. After confronting him about any of it he stated “just what exactly? So now you split up beside me? ” No appologies. He believes he could be appropriate. Yet, he will not let me know where he goes and gets frustrated with my concerns. He informs me if we leave him alone plus don’t phone perhaps he’ll miss me personally. Now, that i’m doing he gets angry and stated “3 times and you also do not phone so far! I have aggravated with you as a result of that – what exactly are you with brand new boyfriend”

Everyone loves this guy a great deal it’s insane and it’s also driving me personally insane.

This man is loved by me a great deal it’s insane and it’s also driving me personally insane. He stopped using me down and explained the final gf he had been with – they lived together for 4 years plus they never ever sought out and all sorts of their friends had been her buddies. After some guy revealed interest for you” I cried so hard in me(a guy bought me flowers) he told me to go on a “date” with this guy “don’t cheat – just get to know him, maybe he better than me. He did not care. And so I did head out with this specific man – i did not cheat similar to my Turkish BF asked me personally we just hung away utilizing the man (we have actually never ever done such a thing similar to this before and I also thought it had been incorrect – no matter if I didn’t cheat). My BF would not phone me personally for several days will never respond to my phone telephone calls nor phone me right back. I did not like to venture out aided by the flowerguy but my Turkish BF made me feel therefore harmed like he did not care that I did so it showing him up for telling us to take action (he could be constantly telling me personally proceed decide on this guy or that man if they appear enthusiastic about me personally – even when We am perhaps not thinking about one other dudes).

Therefore following this flower guy thing and after dating for a few months he separated beside me – we told him i did not cheat. He stated he had been genuine astonished if I didn’t cheat that I went out with the guy even. He then said there is a complete lot going on in which he had been stressing over the whole thing. Things happening from their life and from my children too (us) because they aren’t too approving of. He explained me personally which he does love me personally but he will not would you like to harm me personally also to avoid. Yet I am called by him every so often and wants us to keep buddies.

With me a month ago I have not dated anyone since he broke up. I will be depressed. I became never ever enthusiastic about the flower man him anyway so I wasn’t going to date. I told flower man sorry and essentially explained why i possibly could not date him. Turkish ex calls me personally from time to time and often we look at to their destination and spend some time with him and often I don’t look at. Now, this he calls and asked me why I did not come over his place yet week. We said “did I am asked by you” He stated “why do i must ask” I said “We have always been very tired gone to sleep early. Sorry can’t come over. ” which he stated “come over now, you have got refused me personally 6 times – we have counted – over it is over between us. If you do not come” I state ” you split up beside me a thirty days ago. Am I nevertheless your gf? ” He said “yes” we simply tell him “what is it some crazy style that is turkish of” he laughed. He understands I would like to be with him. He knows he is loved by me. We simply tell him to cease winning contests he informs me he’s perhaps perhaps not games that are playing. He seems like he actually thinks he’s maybe not doing offers.

Just what exactly the heck is he doing? I’m not sure what things to think. We am super confused. He additionally swears he would not ever cheat on me personally as soon as we had been together (though, him “disappearing” appeared like he did). In addition wish to say i’m heavily Catholic – i really do a lot of praying and plenty of Novennas (9 time prayers with all the candles). He considers this “nonsense” and called me a gypsy since I believe in God and I felt like we both believe in God just in different ways for it and thinks its “beechgraff” which I finally translated that to mean “witchcraft” – that hurt me to hear. That we can appreciate and respect our distinctions but he can not perform some exact exact exact same i assume.

Just what does everyone else think? Many thanks for the reviews.

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